Author: 4ujoe


     Four long years have passed since our son died and we have come to realize, that it is in the darkest of times that we see the light. This illumination brings a beautiful vision of clarity. With courage we rise up and live, knowing that our pain will not be a beacon of our strength, but

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There is a deep sense of longing that fills the heart of a grieving mother. Try as I may, to bring joy to this brokenness, but there is no mending or putting the pieces back together. From the eyes, creeps a blank stare, as those voices around me speak, and my ears hear the laughter in the

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How Do We Pick Up the Broken Pieces?

It was a warm sunny, Sunday, September 23, 2012, to be exact, when time stood still and the world, as we knew it, came crashing down all around us. Everything, after hearing those words uttered, forced us into a tail-spin of disbelief. How could this be happening to our family? What did we do wrong? What did we miss? Who knew about this, and

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